Choose your friends wisely. They will make or break you…

Aditya Mahale
4 min readMar 16, 2022
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This blog will make you think about the people you have in your life. It is good to be around positive people. However, if there are negative people or others who are detrimental to your mental health, gradually distance yourself from them. Make sure you are happy with the people you are around. Be with selective people and you’ll find your life will become calmer and happier…

Mental Health

We see that many big celebrities and successful people are in depression. Some are committing suicide. Even after having so much money, those people are not happy in their life. This is because their friends and people in their surroundings are not good for them. Those people are not good for their mental health. They are becoming mentally weak by living with them. So it means that no matter how much money you make or how successful you become if your friends and people around you are not good, you will probably never be happy, then you will always be sad, depressed and you will become mentally weak, which is not quite the right thing in today’s era. Your mental health should be strong.

The company you keep defines you and your level of faith. Choose your friends wisely.

Why do we eat healthy food? To remain healthy, right? So do we pay attention to our mental health in the same way as we take care of our physical health? Do we read good things? Do we see the good stuff? Do we live with good people? Just as good eating leads to physical health, in the same way, doing consuming good things leads to mental health. The things we read, hear, and see all have a major impact on our mental health, so always read good things, watch good things, and be around good people in order to maintain our mental health.

Negative people

Don’t expect positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people.

These people always talk negatively. Their thoughts are also negative. They do nothing themselves and do not allow others to do anything. The specialty of these people is that they remove positive energy from positive people. By staying with negative people, a positive person also becomes negative. If you tell a negative person about an idea or something you think is good, he will respond with negative advice, as if it will not happen, it isn’t possible, etc. You know how negative responses are…

Positive People

Surround yourself with positive people who are going to push you toward greatness.

Positive people are very beneficial to our health. These people are good for our professional growth and our mental health. They give off a very good vibe to us as well. They share a lot of good information with us and also give us good advice and creative ideas which are invaluable.

Be around people who talk about success and professional growth. We can learn a lot from them. We get inspired. People like them take everyone along. Want to see all this being successful. These people are selfless. They think of everyone.

Quantity Doesn't Matter Quality Matters

Life is not about the quantity of friends you have. It is the quality of the friends you have.

It doesn’t matter how many people you have in your life. Rather, how many quality people are there, This pea does. What kind of impact do people have on your mental health? What values do they add to your life? How does it feel talking to them? All these small things matter. Try to keep a few people around you. Hang out with someone who brings you good energy. If you have fewer people in your life, you will be very calm and joyful, you will be focused on your life. You will hear many gossips every day if you have many people in your life; here, you will hear nonsense, which will waste your energy and time. That’s why you should have a small but quality friend circle.

Keep people in your life that truly love you, motivate you, encourage you, inspire you, enhance you & make you happy. If you have people who do none of the above, let them go.

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Aditya Mahale

Hi, I’m sharing my thoughts & knowledge. I talk about personal growth & Mindfulness & life.